Are you wondering if his wandering eye indicates an unfaithful heart? Or if his business trips include pleasure he's not telling you about? Questioning if it's really his sister calling his cell phone at midnight? Or why he's decided to start doing his own laundry - as soon as he gets home at night, late from work?
If you suspect he may be cheating, it may indeed be time to leave him, or it may be a chance to actually make things work. If you haven't addressed the issue and it's just a suspicion, he may not even be cheating in the first place! But whatever way your situation shakes down, the point is, if you're concerned that your guy's been out on the sly (whether actually physically involved with someone else or involved in a cyber affair), you need to consider why you're in the relationship, as well as your role in the problems. This doesn't mean that it's your fault if he cheats - it's up to him to be honest with his feelings and activities, and in a worst case scenario, leave you before getting involved with someone else. But it is your fault if you elect to be the helpless victim.
Before flying into a jealous rage (not that that's ever desirable behavior, but sometimes we can't help it), take a good look at your guy. What makes you think he's up to no good? Could you be imagining things, or even worse, projecting?
The following are some signs that most experts list as potentially indicative of unfaithful behavior:
Jealousy
Controlling the green-eyed monster!
Out of the blue, he's extra concerned with the way he looks.
Your sex life steams up or slows down significantly. For little or no reason, he starts picking fights with you.
The time he spends at work skyrockets.
He develops new or unusual taste in food or pastimes.
He's hooked on the internet and clicks off when you walk into the room.
While all of these signs can indicate cheating, remember that most of the time you can trust your gut. If you have a history of questioning things without reason (it's common to feel insecure in relationships, this is something you can work on), then there's a good chance you're psyching yourself up for nothing here too. However, if you generally have good instincts and something seems to be amiss with your sweetie, then the best thing to do is address it. There's no point wasting anyone's time in a relationship that's not working - especially your own! Whether you decide to mend your fences or move on, you'll have the peace of mind that comes from taking care of yourself. Don't be anyone's victim!
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