Communication Crash Course
Three common mistakes women make trying to get through to a man...
Do you ever walk away from a talk with your guy feeling like you're two ships passing in the night, no common port in sight? Like he's uncaring or self-centered while your whole world is about him? The problem you're experiencing is mostly likely related to communication. Men and women (even those who care about each other deeply) are known to misunderstand each other all the time.
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ere are a few things women often do wrong and tips for how we can start to fix them!
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| TIP: Be aware that there often are differences in how men and women communicate with one another. This way, you can do your best to "interpret" or "decode" what you hear. For instance his "I'm hungry" probably just means he's hungry, while your "I'm hungry" means "I'd like to try that new restaurant on Main Street." Next time just ask! He'll appreciate your direct approach. |
We assume our way of communicating is the right way. |
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| TIP: Look for ways that you can better communicate with your guy. For instance, hold back on the details that tend to lose him and only share the meaty parts of your day's story. You'll likely find that he's more engaged and perhaps even asks questions, which means you can fill in some blanks anyway - just in a way that he understands. |
We think we've understood what he's said without asking him. |
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| TIP: Ask if what you believe has been said is what he meant, especially if you are confused or upset by it. It's also a good idea to ask even when you're not put off - it's not like miscommunication is reserved for arguments. Likewise, you need to make sure that you say what you need and want before you can expect him to know. Guys can't read our minds - nevermind our body language - so what you may think he understands (but is just ignoring) is most likely not even making it on to his radar. Ask and you shall receive… if you're reasonable and nice about it, of course |
| Need help interpreting his language? Let one of our Psychic Love Experts help you achieve understanding. | |
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