A Secret Life
Will it come back to haunt you?
We were surprised to find out that many callers to California Psychics lead secret lives, others are the secret in someone else's life. Our psychics tell us that the majority of their clients who have added "clandestine" to their life's journey are involved in affairs outside of their relationship. Many call in to find out how their double lives are affecting their karma. Others call to find out how to free themselves of guilt.
Though our psychics believe it is not their job to judge - they work with each case individually - they do believe that secrets influence one's spiritual journey in life. Secrets in general are not healthy. They can lead to a higher good, some psychics argue, but they usually have a spiral down effect and are painful to all involved.
"I believe that we operate in a world where the energy you put out there is the energy you get back. If you are hiding something now, something will be hidden from you," counsels Joyce ext. 9598, an Intuitive and Empath. "This pattern is inevitable and has been repeatedly taught throughout history, from Do unto others… to a more scientific version of the same idea, Every action has an equal and opposite reaction."
"I myself have had a secret life in my past and have learned from this lesson that this does produce karma. Secrets produce trust issues in the future for all parties, and all parties can, and usually do, get hurt," BlackHawk ext. 9353, an experienced Psychic and Medium admits. "Yes, you may find out that you should not be in one or both relationships, if an affair is your secret, but if you are going to cheat on someone, you should not be in that relationship in the first place - unless you agree to an open relationship first."
The problem with a secret life is that the words imply dishonesty, "which regarding one's karma is rarely a good thing," says Jonathan ext. 9601. "As with most everything in life, the more one is dishonest, the easier it is to have dishonesty spill into other areas of one's life. That being said, I don't allow these generalities to spill into my readings," the Empath and Clairvoyant states. "There have been times when the secret life was actually the right path for the client, and the mistake was an earlier decision."
"Intent" is as important as the action, some psychics say, especially when it comes to understanding the "positives" of secret lives. Having a secret life can effect a caller's journey in life in various ways, believes Althea ext. 9582, a Psychic whose specialty is helping customers focus on their path. "If one's secret is an existence of self-improvement and developing a new skill, or education level… this can be positive, as well as a secret life that may involve elements of being unfaithful, as long as it is aiding the caller in gaining a level of self-confidence that will aid them in leaving a bad or abusive relationship. If one sets out to hurt another by keeping a secret, this will likely breed karmic retribution."
"My Medicine Elders taught me that the only way that it negatively affects our spiritual growth, is if we consciously know that what we are doing is detrimental to us or another, yet we choose to do it anyway," Rainbow ext. 9544, an Urban Shaman believes. "It is of utmost importance that we realize we are creating our own reality and our own karma with every choice we make," she adds.
Even with the best of intentions, when the secret life you have chosen causes pain to others, you are often causing harm to yourself as well. Ironically, what drives folks to live in secret is fear, and when we fear something we attract more of the same, psychics say. "Dishonesty often brings with it guilt, depression, paranoia… that can torture the person living the secret life," sees Debra ext. 9596, a spiritual counselor who specializes in relationships.
Darcy ext. 9488 adds that because "the secret" in a secret life goes unspoken, the ultimate reason for that life being hidden is unwillingness to face a reality and to see that life for what it really is. The lie to one's self, the Psychic and Medium finds, can result in a subconscious need to be stopped or even punished.
In order to be fulfilled and happy in life, one must first stand in their truth our psychics say. "If we could be honest with each other about these things without fear or recrimination, we could erase this karmic situation completely," Joyce concludes." There are no easy answers in these complicated situations, except the truth. In the light of the truth we become absolved."
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