Nothing Stays The Same

How to embrace change

Change is the one true constant in life. It has no boundaries, it challenges us all and it frightens many of us. But without change life is static - we cannot grow and we cannot learn. There is no progress and we will not evolve, according to our psychics. But change is often challenging, so embracing change takes courage.

The force of change shakes up our comfort zone and puts pressure on us to reexamine long held beliefs that force us to let go of the things in life that no longer work for us. Death, divorce, job loss, financial difficulties… are formidable changes to wrap our heads and hearts around, yet the more we resist, the more difficult the changes become. "The future belongs to those who not only accept change, but embrace it," states Yvonne ext. 9883. "Though being on the front end of change isn't for the faint of heart," she aptly describes.

Resisting change will only make you miserable over the inevitable. "I have worked hard with the phenomenon of change myself," tells Paisley ext. 9661, "finally realizing that there isn't a thing I can do to stop it. I now look at change as transformative and as constant as the seasons. My perspective has evolved from pure fear to a sense of adventure."

One of the most productive ways to embrace change is to approach it positively, believing that the outcome will be for the highest good, whether we want to change or not, our psychics concur. "Open your mind to contemplate what benefits could come of the new reality," Skylar ext. 9887 suggests. "The more optimistic we are, the more the universe allows us to experience new opportunities in life. Change keeps us evolving toward our highest goals and enlightens us as to why we are here on this earth."

If you are able to see or intuit changes coming your way you can grasp and work with them more effectively. "More often than not the winds of change are breathed to us through gut feelings, déjà vu, synchronistic events, as well as readings," Cheryl ext. 9778 lists. "When you listen, you are rewarded with possibilities. When we ignore these signs we run the risk of suffering circumstances that are dumped into our lap.

"Callers who are encountering extreme difficulty may be experiencing astrological activity that is moving their energies," Verbena ext. 9615 reports. "When I communicate this in readings, clients feel better… especially when they understand that cooperating with the energies rather than fighting them, can help guide the changes in the direction of their choice."

Some find embracing change tougher than others. Astrologer Alison ext. 9885 knows that the more water signs that are present in a chart, (like the moon in Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces) the more resistant one may be to moving forward. She has guided clients, like her caller MaryEllen (with her moon in Cancer) told by her husband that he was in love with another woman, into making choices rather than being paralyzed in the presence of change. He offered MaryEllen their house and enough money to get by for a year. Because of the forces in her chart, the psychic knew that by nature her client might let the challenges of change fall where they may, instead of taking the bull by the horns. "I helped by showing her two possible outcomes. She made the choice as to what to do next. She put her house on the market and used the money to start over. Two years later she was married again and had a great job in the medical field."

When unexpected change seems too merciless to even contemplate, Sophia ext. 9882 tells clients to look for support. "Find a role model or a personal change hero, who is going though or has done what you need to do. Make a collage of this person and yourself surrounded by images that represent the changes and positive words or phrases. Look at your collage daily, reflect on the good things that have happened in the past, to regain trust that your future will include more positive experiences."

Shelby ext. 9040 promotes meditating on potential positive outcomes instead of worrying about worst case scenarios, when change forces its way into your life. Psychic Yvonne suggests, wallowing in the information for a while, to insure that decisions made in the face of change lead to a preferred future reality.

When fate steps in and rocks your life, get excited about the possibilities, our psychics advise in conclusion, use your sense of adventure, look for the joy of growth, because in the end, Jesse ext. 9027 concludes, "Change always takes us where we need to be!"