Often callers become anxious when the person they are seeing romantically needs time out from the relationship to focus on other things that need attention. They may need to study for an important exam, take care of a sick relative, or just recover from a challenging time at the office.
Unfortunately, when this happens, callers can become obsessed with doing just the opposite - they begin texting or calling more frequently, or even stalking the person suspiciously, often alienating them in the process, psychic Mercedes ext. 9659 reveals. People call in for readings fearing the worst of the other person - even if they've only been incommunicado for days or weeks.
Tish (not her real name), one of the psychic's regular callers was caught off guard after her boyfriend sat her down one day, to explain to her quite lovingly, that he needed time alone to make some decisions about graduate school. He planned to stay at his parent's vacation home for a week or two. He apologized for not asking her to go along, but hoped she would understand.
Tish was now headed into week two of Ryan's retreat, without a text, email or phone call from her steady, but not necessarily serious, boyfriend of the last ten months. Suspicious thoughts were swirling in her head. She was dying to head up to the woodsy location, as a surprise for Ryan.
"What do you think?" She asked the psychic whom she had been reading with for several months. "Would I be a welcome surprise?"
"Not in this situation…" Mercedes ascertained as she focused on their names and birthdates, putting the two energies together. She arranged her regular deck of playing cards to help bring out even more answers. "Don't even think about communicating with him," she warned her caller. "He'll get back to you a few days after he returns home. So you need to wait another week at the most."
"Well. I did text him this morning… but he didn't answer. And, I sent him a newsy email last night … Was that bad?"
"The more you try to contact him, the longer it'll take for him to respond. He did say he would call you," Mercedes reminded her caller, as she picked up the details of their last conversation.
"Yeah, but…. Why wouldn't Ryan want to hear from me?"
"Respect him. Don't call him…. Call anyone who is not him. Call me," she laughed. "There isn't anyone else in the cards, so don't worry about that." Mercedes went on to describe Ryan as a quiet man who found it difficult to communicate his feelings - and he needed to plod through his decision making process about school.
When Tish called Mercedes again, it was to tell the intuitive that she had listened to the reading and respected Ryan's need for privacy. And, Ryan had called her, just as Mercedes predicted. He talked about his decision to apply to graduate school. And he also wondered how she felt about them moving in together when her lease ran out.
Tish told the psychic that she was nervous, because it all seemed too good to be true - she didn't want to mess things up.
"You both have astrological cycles coming up, that are tough on relationships. If you can make it through next year, you have a good chance of making it together. If you make the decision to move in together, you need to respect the fact that he needs a little distance in his day to day life. Is that okay with you?
"If you don't allow Ryan his thinking time, he may take off again," cautioned the psychic who believes in guiding people to be honest with themselves about the dynamics of their relationships. "Even with these astrological challenges, if you back off, you won't break up," Mercedes explained.
"Actually, I know I bug him when I think he doesn't need me. Now I get it that he also needs to be alone to think about us," Tish admitted with relief. "Thanks for pointing that out to me. I do want this to work. I've already given notice to the landlord!"
"This is a wonderful example of how people create their own future… I just help them see better choices," Mercedes reveals proudly.
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